Growing Up Too Fast

My daughter Svetlana is one year and nine months old now but it feels like it was just yesterday when I gave birth to her. I worry that she will grow up so fast she won’t need me anymore to take care of her. Just take yesterday, after she finished taking a bath. She doesn’t want to wear the t-shirt and leggings I prepared for her and insisted on wearing her favorite dress (which she just wore a couple of days ago). Frustrating. But of course I gave in to her. I wonder how other moms cope with with their little girls’ fashion choice. I mean look at children’s clothes nowadays. What is considered fashionable today are clothes that make young ones look older than they really are.

I have nothing against said trend. In fact, I like to dress up Svet smartly for special occasions, and like seeing other little girls dresses which make them look like young ladies. When Svet gets a little older, I know I will permit her to go with her fashion sense, minus the make-up of course. That’s where I draw the line. Children with mature-looking clothes are okay, but kids with make-up are just absurd. It’s good that girls learn early how to dress themselves up properly, and by proper I mean whatever they think looks best on them. It would be equally frustrating to have a kid who doesn’t have her own take on things, even with little things such as clothes decisions, don’t you think?

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  1. genefaith on February 20, 2010 shared... {#}

    oo nga napansin ko marce, children’s clothes makes someone younger look older with sandals pa na may heels na ..he..he..but very cute damitan ang mga girls..wish my next baby we’ll be a girl…

  2. genefaith on February 20, 2010 shared... {#}

    ako din marce di ko payagang magmake up at very early age…maybe pag 4th yr college na…he..he..that time na rin akong nag make-up….

    • mommy kaye on February 24, 2010 shared... {#}

      4th year?? ako second year. :haha: two years earlier lang :bleh:

      • niko on March 2, 2010 shared... {#}

        hahaah strict nio girls.. siguro ako pag 35yo na yena pede na makeup lol hahahah

    • Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

      you are good with makeup ?

  3. Tetcha on February 21, 2010 shared... {#}

    I agree, time flies really fast. Before we know it, were “lola” na. Haha!

    • mommy kaye on February 24, 2010 shared... {#}

      yikes. lola. hihi. nakuuu. ayoko ata matawag na lola. mudra na lng. :haha: o mamita. anu ba yun. :haha:

      • niko on March 3, 2010 shared... {#}

        hahahaha ako rin.. prang feel ko itawag saken ng mga apo MAMU :) cutey hahahah

    • sherry on March 14, 2010 shared... {#}

      yeah thats why we need cherish each other

    • Sherry on March 17, 2010 shared... {#}

      yeah I need to care for my skin before aging.

  4. supermomplace on February 23, 2010 shared... {#}

    Yesterday I pick a dress for my 2yr to wear.. she was like “oooh pretty dwess thank you mommy” follow by a big ol’ kiss. I just pray she let me pick her clothes for a few more years. fashion for lil girls now a days give me headache!

    • mommy kaye on February 24, 2010 shared... {#}

      i know, right?? it’s soo lady-like!

    • sherry on March 14, 2010 shared... {#}

      hehe.. girls have more choice more fashion :D

    • Sherry on March 17, 2010 shared... {#}

      haha.. gals can have more clothes than boy but need check them not too short clothes.

  5. niko on February 23, 2010 shared... {#}

    i agree. si yena most of the time chooses her clothes eh.. kasi pag pinilit mo naman iiyak lng un at sisigaw ng ayaw…….

    • sherry on March 14, 2010 shared... {#}

      girl sure takes more time, even my sis so I tell her you choose it yourself

  6. niko on February 23, 2010 shared... {#}

    and by the way, yena hates jeans.. gusto nya dresses.. :D lande noh?? hahaha

  7. Chris on February 23, 2010 shared... {#}

    little kids… they grow up too fast indeed!

    • mommy kaye on February 24, 2010 shared... {#}

      i know, right? hihi

      • niko on March 2, 2010 shared... {#}

        sobra.. wait ka lang manghihiram n ng tops yan sau si svet sooner than soon! :)

    • Sherry on March 17, 2010 shared... {#}

      yeah so fast that you can see grey hair of your own.

  8. redamethyst on March 5, 2010 shared... {#}

    good thing lalake anak ko heehehe. don’t have to dress him so much, and don’t have to put make up. hehehe di ako marunong nun eh. :drink:

  9. redamethyst on March 5, 2010 shared... {#}

    pero parang masarap magkaroon ng baby girl noh? natutuwa ako sa mga comments and experiences nyo :D :baby:

  10. sherry on March 14, 2010 shared... {#}

    yeah time flies look at me already 30s I can see grey hair

  11. Sherry on March 17, 2010 shared... {#}

    my friend told me that at college the gals wear like fashion show. no doubt last time I attend college they also same.

  12. Sherry on March 17, 2010 shared... {#}

    yeah children mature looking clothes, kids want be like adult lol.

  13. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    now not just children clothes even adults if we dont watch what we eat. sure out of size

  14. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    children clothes more expensive than my clothes

  15. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    now you now gals have more clothes than boys :D for a reason

  16. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    yeah children boots so pretty, for gals even more cute and bling!

  17. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    do you have boots?

  18. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    I love shopping and if I have gal sure shop fancy for her lol.. just need find cheap shop

  19. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    we need teach kids value of money from young

  20. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    children clothes for gal hard to choose, but you can snap pic and show us so we can share view with you

  21. Sherry on March 18, 2010 shared... {#}

    think of kids grow up fast, look I am in 30s

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